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that-famous-happy-end:

If I lay hereIf I just lay here Would you lie with meAnd just forget the world? 
their moments by *viria13

that-famous-happy-end:

If I lay here
If I just lay here 
Would you lie with me
And just forget the world? 

their moments by *viria13

Why I Ship Jily

alwayslily-jamesuntiltheveryend:

Okay, so recently, an anon asked me why I ship this pairing. This is what I told them:

“First of all, I trust JKR enough to believe that she knows her characters well enough to know how they would feel about each other. It’s canon, so I ship it. That’s the short, simple answer. However, there are all of these other little (but actually ridiculously huge and important) reasons to ship these two characters.

I’d just like to quickly address the fact that I know James was a jerk/bully/downright asshole. I know this, and I totally agree that there is no excuse for his behavior. However, I think it’s clear that something must have happened to him. For Lily to even consider being with James, he would’ve had to change drastically. And she ended up marrying him, so I think it’s safe to assume that he wasn’t the same James Potter that we actually got to see in the books.

To me, though, even when he was a prat of a teenager, there was always something inherently good about James. He may have been a bully, but there was never anything… dark about him, like there was to Snape. To me, James was never just your average bloke. I mean, one of his best friends was a werewolf. The other came from a family of notoriously dark witches and wizards. And still the other was somewhat of an outcast who didn’t fit in anywhere else. James Potter is far from shallow. Not to mention, he doodled Lily’s initials in the margins of his papers. When was the last time you saw a teenage boy do that? I never have. And, in my opinion, that really just shows the depth of his feelings for her; that she was, quite simply, always on his mind. Lily was never just some “conquest” to James.

And, because you can’t talk about Jily without also mentioning Snily, I just need to say that, honestly, Jily has just always made sense to me. And Snily never has. Because, remember, while Lily was alive, Snape was not a good guy. At all. He was fascinated with the Dark Arts while at Hogwarts, and he went on to become a Death Eater after. In my mind, Lily isn’t the type of person to hold a grudge against someone for something they’d done if she truly believed that they had changed. I think it makes sense for her to forgive James in the books, but not Snape. She was alive to see James change right before her eyes, but it took her death to finally transform Snape’s mind and heart.

Ultimately, James humbled and changed himself for Lily, and that’s something that I will always respect and admire. Because, when you really think about it, that’s not an easy thing to do. In order to change yourself, you have to first be willing to admit that there’s something that needs changing. I think that James finally took a hard look at himself, and had to confess that he didn’t like what he saw; that, if he stayed the same, he really didn’t deserve Lily. There’s nothing trivial about James’s transformation; it was difficult, frustrating, and I’m sure that, at times, he felt like it was hopeless. But you know what? The thought of being with Lily got him through it, the thought of even being close to being worthy of her. And it was so incredibly worth it.”

Submitted by heteronsexual.

gillianrk:

People insult Lily’s intelligence and memory by saying Snape loved her more than James ever could. 

By Snape’s own admissions (his memories) he calls her a mudblood when she is trying to defend him; why people think this is acceptable and worth ignoring is beyond me. I cannot comprehend how people can ignore the evidence of Snape’s bad character (his repeated behavior toward Lily’s son) and build up his love up for Lily. 

She quite clearly gave him the option of choosing between the dark arts and her and he chose the dark arts—end of story. 

Notice how she scorns James for his bullying behavior but ends up with him in the end…it’s obvious that he (JAMES) was willing to make changes in his character to be with Lily. Changes that Snape was also clearly UNwilling to make. 

Also, something that Snily fans regularly overlook: the chapter is called “Snape’s WORST memory”. AKA that was the meanest and the WORST the Marauders had ever treated him. I’m not justifying their bullying, I’m just asking people to put it into perspective…the Marauders obviously weren’t that cruel to him all the time because it was his WORST memory. 

And in the end, James died for Lily and Harry; which in my opinion is pretty telling in how much he loved them.

Worst [wurst]
Adjective, superl. of bad and ill.
1. bad or ill in the highest, greatest, or most extreme degree: the worst memory.
2. most faulty, unsatisfactory, or objectionable.
3. most unfavorable or injurious.

alwayslily-jamesuntiltheveryend:

that’s all I need. by *viria13
001. During their first year Lily and James once found themselves alone in the common room. They sat working in silence until he blurted out that he thought her hair was pretty. It took a month and a half for him to be able to look at her again without feeling like a complete ninny.
Lily’s Patronus was a doe because James’s was a stag. She loved him. She never loved Snape.

 JK Rowling: the Patronus often mutates to take the image of the love of one’s life (because they so often become the ‘happy thought’ that generates a Patronus).

harrypotterconfessions:

I never liked the fact Lily married James. Especially after reading ‘The Princes Tale’ James was such an arse. I wanted her to Marry Severus. In my head if she had been with him he wouldn’t have been a death eater. 


Seriously, this doesn’t make any sense. Snape became a Death Eater while he was still in school, way before James and Lily got married. He would’ve became a death eater anyway, regardless of J/L’s relationship. He and Lily stopped being friends because he -Snape- called her a Mudblood. James Potter didn’t make him call her a mudblood. She probably would’ve liked him if he hadn’t been so into dark magic.

harrypotterconfessions:

I never liked the fact Lily married James. Especially after reading ‘The Princes Tale’ James was such an arse. I wanted her to Marry Severus. In my head if she had been with him he wouldn’t have been a death eater. 

Seriously, this doesn’t make any sense. Snape became a Death Eater while he was still in school, way before James and Lily got married. He would’ve became a death eater anyway, regardless of J/L’s relationship. He and Lily stopped being friends because he -Snape- called her a Mudblood. James Potter didn’t make him call her a mudblood. She probably would’ve liked him if he hadn’t been so into dark magic.